• terminhell@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Jokes aside - I’ve heard, from sex therapist friends that getting off isn’t your partners job. It’s yours. Your partner is there just to help.

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      19 hours ago

      I mean sure. It’s also okay to want a partner that cares about your experience during intimate, vulnerable acts instead of a guy who sees you as just a useful hole

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      2 days ago

      It’s not premature ejaculation, my partner is just really good at helping. Its always my fault though.

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      2 days ago

      With the exception of “if you came, it doesn’t mean you consented”

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      I guess, but my history makes me feel like I’m batting a thousand. I guess I bring that “I’ll do what your body needs, lemme know” kinda vibe to the bedroom.

      Have there been misses? Of course. Have there been partners that achieved orgasm in ways they didn’t think would happen? Also yes.