I think it can be summed up as Looking != Leering

If anyone needs it, https://quitmormon.com/ was a huge help for me. Lawyer will submit orders to expunge your record from the church for free if you complete a form and get it notarized. I stopped having missionaries and bishops leaving voicemails on my building callbox after that. Nothing like having mystery voicemails from your building box after moving multiple times and not stepping foot in a church for almost a decade.

And the tumor has MAGAstisied.