I just tried them in the same room, toby in the cat carrier, and dom outside in the room, and she looked at me like “so? You want me to care?” lol. Toby was meowing, she knew he was there, and she didn’t care. I think intros are going swimmingly

honestly, the eye gunk thing would make me fall for him even more <3

i have no advice, but i just wanted to thank you for taking a FIV+ cat. they almost always get passed up at the shelters, because no one wants a cat who is gonna be sick every few months or whatever. So, from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for taking him on knowing he’s gonna have a lot of vet bills. <3

Assuming you got him from a shelter, he was probably just adjusting. Shelters are scary places for kitties. Lots of stress from the other cats, people, so many smells etc. how’s he doing now?

Poor zee. Best of luck for him. I wish him well. Good luck zee! You got this!

Everyone loves Toby <3

Me especially.

Your angels are gorgeous. I wish the best for you with whatever you’re going through. Hugs :)

Before me, this was one of my cats’ third stints in the shelter. Makes me sad. He’s a great little guy

The bestest boy <3

I monitor the cat shelter website for cats I like (I can’t get anymore I have two already. I just like looking at cats). Anyway, I saw one cat as returned for being “too affectionate”. 1) too affectionate? What the fuck is that??? 2) I don’t think that’s a bad thing. Affectionate cats are great.

I mean, they’re not furniture. they’re living beings with needs and emotions. You can’t get a companion animal and expect them to just sit there and do nothing all day. they need affection and attention. If you just want a cat to sit there and do nothing, get a fucking statue.

My latest rescue came from his third stint in the shelter. I have no clue why. he’s a great little guy.

/rant

My cats are strictly indoors. They always have been and always will be. They have a lot of enrichment and soon they’ll have each other (doing intros currently) so that’s even more enrichment. No cat should ever be outside. They live longer being inside only cats too

wtf. You’re cheating on your cat with online cats???

Haha yeah. I love watching Toby on gaba. He very quickly goes from a raging maniac (slight exaggeration) to completely out in the space of 10-15 minutes.

This is my old lass. She’s coping pretty well with such a big change

Also have any of yall given your cats gabapentin? Shit works FAST. He’s dead to the world in 15 mins

Yes, I am indeed Linux people.

it could also be just him being a chatterbox. ¯\_ (ツ)_/¯

ofc. I love both my cats and am trying to split my time between them equally, so neither feels the other is getting more attention than the other. But yeah, it’s great having such an affectionate kitty. he follows me around the room and always wants attention from me. it’s awesome <3

thank you. I’m not giving up on either cat. whether it takes a month or a year, or not at all, I’m not giving up on them. I love my old girl, and i well and truly fell in love with mr toby.

Toby meowed. I think that means “hello!”