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Cake day: December 18th, 2024

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  • Cheating is definitely in the minority of my social circle. I know of 2 amongst 100. At least people who were shameless enough to be admitting it.

    That said, I do have maybe 5 open relationships in my friend group? I don’t usually ask, so maybe 10 total. My wife and I are monogamous. If you’re not, whatever, you do you. It isn’t a religious thing, it’s just how we roll.

    But good lord at least talk about it, agree on it and stick with it. If you don’t then you’re a dick.


    1. Well, a lot of people jumped ship from other platforms because of politics. So they’re gonna be here.

    2. It’s a time where politics are fucking with all of us, so it’s topical.

    3. reddit still exists and has a larger base, so if you want to talk about stardew valley, just by the nature of numbers that’s where they’re gonna gather.

    4. There are a lot of “lurkers” here, not a lot of posters. Seriously, notice how often The Picard Maneuver, or Stamets keeps popping up.

    God I hate to be the guy who says this especially because I am ABSOLUTELY being hypocritical right now, but you gotta be the change you want.




  • I think you have a point, but also you’ve cranked that point to 11. Possibly 12.

    Like yes, women can be really infuriated by how often they get hit on. I know the main reason my wife wanted a stereotypical wedding ring with a single diamond was that “it’ll keep the flies away”

    But also… people interact with you in public. It’s like… a property of public spaces. Indeed talking to my wife in a public space is how we met.

    The way you make it sound from your description would be that asking some woman directions would be a social fopah. Hell, where does just “having a conversation” land for you then? If you leave without asking for a number, is it different?

    There’s a difference between idle chit chat and approaching like Johnny Bravo.





  • I’m not,

    I’m genuinely skeptical that most polls are an accurate sampling of the population. Most people I know would never sit through a phone poll. Most polls reek of phishing. One of the very first phone polls said that Dewy would beat Truman in a landslide. It was completely wrong because it was predominantly rich people who had the phones to even answer the polls.

    Who has the time for polls? Who drops by the candidate booths at the state fair? It’s a type for sure.

    The only poll I have been a part of all last year was a phone poll entirely about optometrists and eye appointments and how they should be handled in the healthcare system. I couldn’t even finish it because the entire things was just… painful to go through.