Says who? Do you have some quantifiable proof, studies, or is this just the same old " i don’t like it, baaaaaaad " bullshit?

So, is that an American “,” or a sane people “,”?

So, either 7k days or 7 1/3 days?

I need to know! Help!

This comment brought me to: yes, there should be an AMA!

Srsly, polyamorous relationships are a complex beast. And no, they are not better or worse then other relationship models. They are just different.

I am open to such an AMA. Any place on lemmy where this would work?

I would have an issue with it, personally, because related. But this would be my personal limit

I am poly, so, I have no troubles with this. As long as they keep separate bedroom action, I don’t see the issue

As a poly person: no, it is not a “affiar-tolerant monogamy”. That is an open relationship.

Polyamorous partnerships are far more committed. Also, sex is not always a part of it.

Of course there is the concept of a primary partner, but there are lot of poly folks that thislike this idea.

But what all of those relationships have in common: there is no case where only one partner is poly. All is about communication and consent.

And to the core topic: There is this thing like a polycule. A network of people with somehow connected relationships. Breakups in those structures are often consensual and no big fuzz. But if it gets dirty, at least in my experience, the offending member of the polycoule gets shown the door. And most of the times, those are the new ones. People that think the could convince their partner to get monogamous because they are the only one that is needed.

Sorry for the long post, you hit a nerve there ;)

Oh, not true anymore:

https://docs.clamav.net/manual/Usage/Scanning.html#on-access-scanning