• dream_weasel@sh.itjust.works
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    18 hours ago

    Why not?

    I increase weight and duration to be able to do more or go longer than than other people which brings feelings of accomplishment. It also brings all the benefits you describe. You don’t HAVE to compete, but that doesn’t mean that people who do compete are just victims of the patriarchy, that’s an absurd take.

    It’s almost like we can all do things for different reasons and you don’t have a monopoly on why people should do a thing.

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      17 hours ago

      You feel the need to compete for attention, because you have been told winning a competition increases your “value”…

      Why do you think or feel that competing increases your value, somehow?

      You feel its all just “mate selection” and Im telling that is a facet of the patriarchy…

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        25 minutes ago

        I’m telling you I like to compete and by every metric I’m probably both healthier and more capable than you as a result. I’m glad you’re working on it, but the difference between us is not “patriarchy” no matter how you shoehorn it, it is more likely not being in good shape and trying to catch up. I like attention as a motivator sure, but success and improvement are their own rewards. People can just be just more motivated than you. Bodybuilding and powerlifting are both things people enjoy for their own sake.

        Society isn’t the thing keeping you down, it’s the law of averages. Most people suck. At everything. All the time. Welcome.

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            30 minutes ago

            The moment one party resulted to sealioning, the argument was over. 🤷

            Or maybe that’s also the Occam’s razor of patriarchy.