For me it’s the heat. I like cuddling for 3 seconds and then the air in between my face and the persons head gets stuffy and all of a sudden I can’t breath unless I turn to face the other way.
Twirling and twirling and twirling through the cosmos.
Don’t touch me while I’m sleeping, it’s simple, you will annoy me and make me too hot. We can cuddle before we fall asleep or at any other time really but if I’m in bed to sleep, do not touch me.
Separate beds are fairly common, but many are too embarrassed to talk openly about it.
I believe lots of partners view it as “this person is emotionally safe - so my brain shuts off knowing they’re there”…Those people are seeking to find an any-sleep-position stooper together and make that a comfort habit…
… whilst lots of other people are like: comfort is comfort. I can’t be blissed out all the time, I need uninterrupted sensory blankness to shut off my brain.
Both are human, one requires two people closeness, the other doesn’t.
Uhhh… still better than the street fighting moves I try to pull I was told. I have successfully landed some punches, elbows and kicks in the past.
I’ve definitely caught some punches and flails from my spouse. You just gotta wonder sometimes because your sitting there like… is she fighting me in her dream right now as well? Lol
Oh I only remember once trying to kick a zombie, struggling because of duvet so trying harder and harder until I… landed the kick IRL. The punches elbows seem to be just wild sudden rotations, which have become bit more dangerous with the sports watch (sometimes I scratch my face/head pretty bad).
That being said I’m pretty sure I caught a good one in my front teeth from my partner as well a few months back, as they did hurt for over a month and I suspect the bottom ones had moved slightly lol
sending this to the person I want to cuddle right now
I don’t know how they do it, but they lie down and then like just stay where they landed for the whole night
I learned that power after we had our first baby, since I had a small sliver of bed left I learned to sleep without moving
You wanna cuddle me? Fr tho I sleep on a raised bed without railing and I’ve never fallen even tho I rotate all night like a beyblade
I’ve been charicarized as dead while sleeping by more than one person. If I am not bothered in any way during the night I most likely wake up in the same position I fell asleep in.
Same. Ankles crossed. Elbows tucked in. Hands on chest. It’s very comfortable. However I once took a nap on a couch and a family member remarked about it by asking when my funeral would be.
I really thought that was going to end with you sitting up in a coffin and going out for a busy night of hunting just after sunset 😂
Funny you should say that, because I was working nights at the time and my bed was fully enclosed in one of those blackout tent things. I’m pretty fond of garlic, though. Crucifixes I could take or leave. I don’t like the idea of being perforated by a wooden stake, but I feel like that’s a preference shared by most people.
“Right after yours.”
Damn, I wish I was quick like that.
My gf calls me a cockroach :D
I think of myself more as a rotisserie chicken.
Unfortunately, I am both the hot dog, and the person who wants to cuddle. It is a cruel existence.
Same. If I feel like I can’t move my arms I start to get this irrational feeling of being trapped that closely reminds me of claustrophobia. Many types of bondage would be like being waterboarded for me lol, I’d go insane near immediately. I’ll jump out of plane without a parachute before I willingly go cave diving.
tossing, turning, screaming, crying…
It’s the reason none of our cats cuddles with me at night.
For real. I just alternate every position repeatedly until one of them sticks.
Don’t mention the word stick or I’ll realize part of my leg has gotten to warm and is now sticking to my other leg and I’ll need to move again
Coincidentally I’m laying down for an 8hr writhing session right now
