I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.

“Nothing new under the sun” I suppose!

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    My children are still very young, but oh are they happy!

    They are enjoying their life and no future suffering will ever take that away from them.

    I wouldn’t want to deny those awesome humans their right to play as merrily as they do. To create, to enjoy life. They exist right now as well, in 2025 and 2026.

    The end of life is always painful. Life is still worth it.

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      It’s a very personal decision and I’m glad about every human that’s not born on this crowded planet. But collectively not having children feels pretty bleak to me. Are we as a species already giving up, rolling on our backs and wait to go extinct? Come on! There is so much beauty and so much to do in this world.
      My children are having a great time, they bring joy, purpose and chaos to my life. I love having them around, even though their future scares me. That has always been part of becoming a parent.
      I feel like some doomer lemmings need to go outside a little more, instead of telling themselves and their screens how awful everything is. Life was brutal a century ago.

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    I think that, no matter when you were born in history, there were trials and tribulations.

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    Absolutely I do. And I don’t understand what makes a person think that bringing a new life into this disaster is a good idea.

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      Well, hopefully you at least feel thankful that so many of your ancestors brought children into a world much more filled with pain and suffering and death than today.

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        I’m not, lmao. My life sucks. Wtf is with all the breeders here trying to justify their contributions to climate change!? There is immensely more pain and suffering in our immediate future than there was at any point in human history. We are literally looking at the end of humanity here.

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          Oh, and are you not contributing to climate change? Ok for you tho, just not kids?

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          Breeders, oy… So wtf you still doing here if so miserable and zero hope?

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    It’s the main reason I’m not having children. While there are other reasons the main one is a combination of global warming made worse by late stage capitalism and the resulting political instability that comes with that.

    While I refuse to make the choice to bring someone new into this world myself I do see it as my duty to help as many of the kids around me who were brought into this world regardless. The world they were bron into is not their fault and I appreciate being able to use my resources to help them and their parents.

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    I was born in the 90s and I feel sad about being born to this day, can’t imagine the poor kids who are gonna grow up now

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    I think the next generation is going to start feeling it hard. Current generation will slip by but barely. I’m not pressuring my kids to have their own. Just do you fam.

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    If you were born 20 years earlier you’d get to destroy the planet and die before there was any consequences?

    The kids will be fine, they are smarter and more capable than those that came before them, every time. The real problem is people living so long they aren’t making room for the young people. Think turnover at a restaurant, and all the diners finished eating and paid but won’t leave.

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    Since the industrial revolution, fossil fuels were the only affordable energy sources that could meet the demand of industrialized countries. Until 5-10 years ago.

    We’re now in a situation where most people can still pretend that climate change isn’t serious, and the fossil fuel lobby is stronger than ever. And yet over 90% of new electricity generation is already renewable, because it has simply become cheaper than coal and gas power in the last years.

    As climate impacts worsen, the pressure to decarbonize will only get larger. The lobbies have been fighting tooth and nail against the energy transition for over 40 years, but they are rapidly loosing ground now in most countries.

    It’s right to be alarmed about climate change, there will be serious long-term impacts, but it seems irrational to be completely fatalistic. Just comparing the battery prices and solar panel prices and ev market with 10 years ago reveals a truly massive shift. And this is just the beginning of the energy transition.

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    No. I felt sorry for people born yesterday, but I think today’s kids will be OK.

    Not sure about tomorrow, though. :P

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    Yeah, the world is overrun with dragons right now. It sucks.

    But I suppose it’s about one’s perspective as to the point of life: Is the ideal life one of ease and leisure or of purpose?

    We can choose to spite the dragons by voluntarily going extinct, or we can pass down the very best of ourselves and be good examples to raise dragon slayers to take up the mantle, whilst learning from our missteps.

    I choose a perspective of hope and responsibility to humanity.

    Do not pray for an easy life. Pray for the strength to overcome a difficult one. –Bruce Lee

    There’s some good in this world, Mr. Frodo, and it’s worth fighting for. –Samwise Gamgee